- On A Personal Note - A quarterly newsletter on my life as an artist from Selina Starkillr 2025 was NOT it for me… And yet, here I am, alive and well in 2026. How did it go for you? It’s been a while since we last connected, and so very much has happened. Let’s catch up, shall we? Last year was full of surprises for me, momentous highs and deep, dark lows. I started and ended a business partnership, joined and left a drag house, performed new nerdlesque & burlesque acts, shared my art at...

Selina starkillr's notes on: How Comparative Mindsets Keep Us Stuck Have you ever gotten an idea for an act or performance, only to stop yourself because you “don’t have a good enough costume”? Or maybe you’ve seen others bravely baring it all in burlesque and thought, “Oh, I could never do that.” Is this something that you’ve felt before? know I have. It’s called a comparative mindset, and it can lead to feeling lonely, sad, and contribute to low self esteem. Especially in today’s world of...

Happy New Year everyone! 2024 was a crazy year. Let's start off 2025 by doing something nice for ourselves! Hey all! How have you been? It's been a while since our last chat. What have I been up to? Oh, just co-producing my first three burlesque, drag, and pole events with the amazing Miranda Darling! We're called Killr Darling Productions, and our event is called Outcast Cabaret! There are tons of pictures of our events over on our Instagram here. Our next event is coming up soon! Outcast...